How To Deal With A Dilemma

Sourabh Khandelia
1 min readAug 25, 2020

Have you ever faced a situation when you can’t decide what to do next? A single action can turn around your life upside down like career move, relationship moves, business moves etc.

I call them the inflexion point of our life. Every day we encounter these small inflexion points which direct our life towards our goal.

That point is how we decide whether we are going in the right direction.

For that, we need to ask ourselves two questions.

  1. What is holding me?
  2. What is pulling me?

This is a simple approach which looks like a variation of pros and cons? But “what is holding me?” and “what is pulling me?” are positive questions to ask ourselves which led us to the right choice every time.

If you have to decide between two good options, ask yourself “What is holding you” and “What is pulling you”.

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